Mombear, could you please put a summary of your situation in your signature? Click on "My Stuff" -> "Edit Profile."

There are so many people suffering here w/ similar situations... the summaries in signatures help us remember who you are.

Thanks.

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final