Progress is slow but does happen!

[PacLove]

Been taking a break for a while from the forum, not sure if this is good or bad but part of my GAL - things have been going fairly well..

W is still engaged at arms length, there is not much tension and she does a lot around the house but I'm debating whether to let that continue as I know the A is still going on and she's still pretty clear on her intent to live separate lives. She has a permanent place coming up in a few months to move into, so that will be a real change as we'll have to discuss finances and logistics (things she's not really thinking about).

We had a brief talk last night about what to tell our D (at the advice of D's Therapist) and she said she's not ready to come home and is thinking of telling her 6 months.

I'm debating between going dark/NC and maintaining status quo - happy when she's around but not engaging at all.