newbie. sep 6months. Little hope for reconcilation

[Surfer]

Sandi makes a great point. 'Male Bashing'. It's validation.

Guys don't do this so much. I think because they don't need as much validation. Perhaps if they are WH they do? Not sure??

Sometimes it's about a WS saying "I know this is wrong, but please validate me". It's because they need to be supported in their 'wayward ways'. I think guys, generally speakin, in my experience, are more honest. I have called WH (friends) out on this point before. I.e "No, your actions are bad, I get it, but stop it". I think again IMHO girls need their own self validation (friends of WW) so much more they can't do it so readily. Perhaps because their lioness pride might crumble? IDK Sandi or others might have more of an insight on this?

Personally, it gives the LBH more of a problem. You don't only need to detach from the WW but also her 'pride'.

Surfer.