Unfortunately, your W having a circle of close friends who are down on H's, the conversations can turn into male bashing. It may seem like a lot of nonsense to a mature man, however, I have not only witnessed it.......I have experienced it.
When you have a W who is unhappy and angry, and her friends are angry at their H's....it is easy for them to feed off each others emotions. I believe that's why your W would be in that angry emotional state after their conversation. You are correct about the cheerleader. These male bashing sessions have the same affect as high school pep rallies before a football game. Her emotions are charged.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
