Not at this point...but any specifics certainly would. I have overheard the first friend going to the Big "D" and the w was validating her friends complaints. And my w became much more easily angered and angered more often after that first D. Then another friend divorced. Each time there was more r deterioration. I believe they are cheerleaders for each other. Don't get me wrong. We've had problems and arguments. But now it seems almost every communication there is degrading comments are made to me. 99/100 from years ago? Almost every text ends with a jab even though it starts out friendly. Even well before the separation I have really dialed back engaging in defense or offense. Yes, what you have said sounds familiar. We need to stay strong together so don't give up. Hopefully the monster will get out of our wives bodies so they can feel the pain and see our change. Thanks for your insight!
