Some new information has come to light. Wife still not admitting anything but looks like I'm dealing with a wayward spouse.
I'm reading the book and following the rules. I guess this would be the ride out the storm approach.
I initially asked her to switch jobs (workplace affair). I should probably not bring this up or pressure her. Don't want the reverse effect. I think word is getting out at work (not me) and she will be under extreme stress. I think she will resign to avoid the shame. Less face time with the affair partner. Divide and conquer...
The cause of the affair? well she cheated but I was neglecting her. I worked fulltime job durn the day. Watched our child at night. Cleaned the house did laundry. Did the books and paid all the bills. Home repairs and yardwork. I did all the things good husbands do..But I forgot to put my wife at the top of the list. I have friends who have life's are in complete mess. But they take care of there wifes first. I've learned from this experience. I just hope its not to late.
