Have to keep making the changes

[Zues126]

That was all pretty rough draft, so let me clarify one thing. I do feel for this person's suffering. I do.

I simply believe that 100% of marriages, both people could write this story if they wanted to. I am challenging those on these DB forums, have any of you been married for 20+ years and feel you couldn't have written a story about how neglected, unfulfilled, hurt, diminished, unappreciated, and unheard you were? Anyone? Bueller?

We all could write that story. When you buy a bus ticket to marriage-ville, it spends a lot of time in this bay. The question is what do you do when you get there? Divorce isn't a solution, it's a horrible act of destruction. I think that all couples should have to read this story prior to getting married, and those that support this person's choice should just adopt a few children and stay single.