Not a ton to speak of. W picked up the little guy yesterday around 10, even though she said it'd be around 9:15. Didn't mention anything about it. I was literally beat. I took a nap around 1:30 for a couple hours. I did some me reading, watched some tv and generally just rested up.
She asked me to pick up the little guy at the church at 10:30 so I said sure. (She had previously asked to keep him until after nap time, roughly 3PM). She said they had gone to see her friend, who I like, and gone to a farmer's market yesterday. He did well she said, and sent me a pic of him in a train like thing. I was cordial, maybe a little too friendly who knows, and was happy to see my buddy. She said she was going to a meeting at her boss' church re joining a mentoring program. I had seen the link on her FB page earlier, so I decided to look. It really sounds like something my old W would like, meeting up with an elementary school aged kid once a month and help them as needed.
I forgot who's thread it was on, or who said it, but it was said that if your W isn't doing the things to make her happy she will always blame you for her being unhappy. I have never looked at it that way. The more I think about it, the more it makes sense. We cannot truly love someone else before we love ourselves.
I'm trying another recipe this weekend, started following a FB page for more. The new recipe is a more pure chicken fried rice recipe than how I make it. Also, I saw a recipe for homemade taco seasoning which sounds great! Whoever would've thought I'd enjoy cooking lol.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.