SadDad8 - it doesn't cost anything to educate yourself about the legal process. There may well be free resources available for you. My WW had 2 consults with a L for free through the local county court. Check also with the social services office or whatever it is called there.
Know your rights - knowledge is power and will make you more confident as you go along this journey.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells