More patience and do nothing. Ride out her storming. Please take nothing personal! It is she who is mad at herself and hurting and she's trying to hurt you.
Be good to you and don't expect her to meet any of your needs right now. Protect the kids and immerse yourself with the. Carry on your life and show her what she's missing.
She will try and get you mad or defensive or get you to react. Don't do it! It's really hard to do but oh so worth it!
Hang in there!! Rooting for you!
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again