Hi Mleigh - your post really resonated with me! Your comments about seeing what is important in life and accepting the diversity we see, really struck a chord. In some ways, I am so much much more certain of things in life. And yet, this whole experience has taught me that there is nothing that would surprise me anymore. I have seen and experienced the craziest things.


Your Zen garden sounds amazing!

And I agree, you should definitely see a hero when you look in the mirror. Here's to moving forward . . .


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced