Out of in house S - On My Own (11)

[vise82]

Hey,

from Ws mouth, she is worried that the negative opinion my family has of her will be brought to light to our kids.

This was her number one fear when she wanted to seperate. This was the number one issue that she would take me to court over in the S agreement.

From my perspective now that I dont have the love fog, she has treated me bad, she doesnt want anyone to tell our kids the truth about it.

From the early days my family has not treated her well in her eyes, they thought she was a snob and that I could do way better.

this treatment of her has caused problems in our MR so we moved away from them to save our MR. In the end I can see it was not them it was her. THey were not a factor for three years as we had no contact with them. Still the MR tanked.

My parrents are a different story and I want not cantact with them. But my brothers and sisters I have started to talk to a couple of them (big family).

How W can refuse our kids from visiting a new baby is unforgivable at this point.

I was on board with putting in the S areement about getting W permition first before the kids can see my family to prevent going to court.

Durring kid exchange I asked her about it and she says she needs time to think about it. SHe says nothing has changed. I said everything has changed. I asked her not not take too long thinking about it. then I left.

The longer it takes her, the worse it will look for her. I have not told the kids but at some point they will find out.

I see it as she cant say no. Its my family not hers anymore, let me live my life. If it goes to court no judge is going to side with her on this. It is life restricting for me. If I have my kids I cannot visit with my brother or sister.

All so W can save face infront of our kids? Really she needs to grow up.

She is out tonight doing the wine tour we did last year with a limo and her family. So happy to not be part of it this year.So happy to spend the time with my boys.