My wife and I were together since 1989, then in 1990 I, in a dramatic way(long story) became a Christian, my wife came along but didn't have the same enthusiasm as I did, I came from a rough drug taking life style and I was just so happy at what God had done in my life, yet I was still young and ignorant.
The church we were saved into was an ultra conservative Pentecostal church where women did not cut hair at all, no make up, no jewellery, only long dresses but my wife goes along with it but tries to express how she disagrees, how do I respond? " can't you just get with the program? All the other girls do! then in 93 we get married, off course no dancing at our wedding " because you only dance as unto the Lord" and this for a the girl who always loved to dance even as a little girl in her "spinning dress" All this together with my lack of true love for the real her led her to fall into the affair... I get it. In 97 we finally left and joined a church more suited to us.
Just thought I'd share that so you could understand my wife's affair wasn't just a girl gone wild thing.
