No apologies...post away! As I said in my initial post, I don't really have much of a DB story going on at this point, so I'm just chatting...
As for my regrets... I would definitely say I should have been more validating to H. We married really young, and he had very traditional ideas about being the "man of the family." I wasn't always supportive of his choices when we disagreed about what was in the best interest of the family, and that caused problems. Over the years, I've come to believe it's more important to support your partner than it is to be right, and if someone makes a mistake, you'll overcome it together as long as you can remain united.
The new sheets sound wonderful... I am sure they are very manly sheets, at that.
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Cherry, baby flutters are so amazing!!! Enjoy every moment of it. My oldest used to kick throw pillows off my stomach. It was the funniest thing...