Anna 2.0

[Surfer]

Sorry Anna.

I keep doing this. Posting on the wrong thread...duh.

In terms of the things you felt you did wrong, what were they? Similar to Cherry or different? Just think it's interesting how Cherry wasn't validating her H's feelings.

I did the same, did you? If you did, I wonder if it's partly about personality types? Perhaps some don't need validation so much - as they are secure in who they are, but others do, as they are less so?

I guess I was always very secure. Until BD etc.

Just a thought!

Surfer.