So last night, came home, D having a sleepover so no playtime. Took the opportunity to read a bunch of the 5 LLs. Going to bed and noticed W laid out my shirts on our bed that I'd forgotten in the drier. Send her a text as I'm snoozing of saying thank you for laying my shirts out.

Wake up this am at 8 after 10hrs of sleep. Not sure when the last time I did that was. Have a message, an hour after I sent mine, from W saying that now she may have a lump and needs to have a mammogram and that the doc is checking if insurance covers it. I respond back similar to last time, "your doctors appt sounds like it must have been really tough on you. Let me know if you want to sit down and talk about it." W sends back "I'm just telling you so you don't question the $".

Ok...

So then D and I are playing after breakfast and W sends me another text:

W: "D and I had plans this weekend that you changed and D is a tiny bit annoyed about it. You might want to talk to her about it. It's not entirely fair for you to just decide you want to hang out with her and expect her to rearrange her plans. It's not the first time you've done that. Just think about it for a second before you say anything to D (or me)."

If that's not enough, W follows it up with a drive by conversation saying pretty much the same thing after I don't respond. It's funny, but they told me they had plans, after learning I'd cancelled mine, and I said I'd hang out with D around those plans. They haven't changed any of their plans that I knew of. Frustrating.

Another small but funny thing is W has an issue with a pair of shoes I bought when I started to dress nicer. I got a pair of vans slide on shoes to just kick around in. W made a comment over our beach week about how she didn't hint those were guys shoes. Didn't think anything of it, but then I came home yesterday and right beside my shoes are an eerily similar pair (same color, etc) of the shoes in her size. Add that to the phone insurance card for new cell phones still out on her counter (I think she got a secret phone...no idea how she pays for it) and she seems to be playing some sort of strange game.

That said, I'm in a much better place after doing the gym twice yesterday and getting some sleep. I think that's the key for my sanity right now. Will respond to everyone a bit later bc D is about to come home and I want to get some playtime in before my GAL fantasy football draft tonight. Appreciate all of you!


Me39
M11 : T13
D9
BD 5/31/16
In House S until 6/21/17
Divorced 10/5/18