Very close to giving up

[Jug]

Cherry,

I'm especially sorry about your situation with your wh. It is definitely his loss to miss out on such important things.

Not to make you feel bad or brag, but one thing my ww won't say is that I haven't been a devoted dad. Even she will(at times) say that I do more than my share. I have spent most weekends with him like a single father since I could take him to parks and play areas. I even take him to the gym with me and he's very good there. This inequity has led to many fights and my crabbiness. GAL'ing is something I can't really do. I don't ever go out and have few non-work friends. As you can see, these are a few aspects of my life that would only get better on the D side of things...