I have found evidence of W and friends spying on me through different venues so I am reluctant to get into specifics. These are divorcees. The divorces is where I noticed the most profound changes. With each one, anger and resentment increased. I can say jealousies and parenting have been the mainstay probs. That should be well behind us now. And I thought it was? But now, previous issues are brought up frequently and treated as if they happened an hour ago? The level of resentment for me now is much higher than the weeks previous to the separation with very little contact and zero arguing from me since the separation.