SadDad8 - I think you need to be sympathetic(ish) and say no. Perhaps tell her that she needs to work on getting herself well and strong and that you are working on being a great dad and to not worry about the kids (I know that's not what she said she needed). A family isn't a wading pool that you can jump in and out of when you want to cool off.
Just my 2 cents.
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