Excellent post Sandi! That's an awesome description of what needs to happen and would be particularly usefull for all of us "nice guys" that want to be friends with our spouses thinking that will show them how we've changed and will bring them back.
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)