Originally Posted By: AndrewP
Know your rights and make sure you are driving the bus where you want it to go.


Good advice, thanks. Exactly the same advice my IC gave (because she feels I've been a doormat and a cake baker).

I did double check and confirm that infidelity is simply not considered where I am, and there is no separate D form for it.

I just wanna say... Brigitte Bardot!

"Now the reason we're here
As man and woman
Is to love each other
Take care of each other
When love walks in the room
Everybody stand up
Oh it's good, good, good
Like brigitte bardot"
-- The Pretenders


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final