Sometimes I still find myself surprised that men are paying attention to me, wanting to spend time with me, or are interested in what I have to say. It's a very nice feeling.
Of course you are still attractive to men. Attractiveness is more than just youth -- in fact, youth and immaturity is unattractive.
I'm glad you saw your H for what he is.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final