And what makes her happy, apart from H + kids? Is she doing those things? Is *she* GAL-ing to make herself happy? If she's not working on being healthy, she'll always blame you for making her unhappy.
This speaks to me, I've never really thought about it that way. W said she left because she was unhappy, so I've wanted to see her down in the dumps if you can follow my logic.
She's going to counseling to work on herself, going to church, going to the gym again, expressing herself in ways she felt she couldn't do in the M (new tats, hair coloring, etc), cutting down on drinking and so on. However, she only sees S on Sat along with about an hour after school. She is picking him up tomorrow morning and keeping him until Sunday PM this week, but that's only because she had to work tonight. I don't feel like the Mom in her has fully come back yet, and it is a huge turnoff for me.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
