I think you're going to be a great asset. I do hope to reconcile, but there would have to be serious changes. Just like your h, mine has a tendency to dip in and out of the M.

I admire your strength and your values, especially m with regards to only dating once the papers were signed. Your advise will be valuable to a lot of us dealing with this very difficult situation.

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16