I also wanted to add in that my wife says
"I need time to work on myself"

and

"I have been in relationships for 10 years straight and it has taken a toll on me"

and

"I don't know what I want right now I am very confused"


I do believe there is a MLC going on here in addition to other things. But regardless of all that, I am willing to read these books and apply the techniques and be the change I want to see.