Here's an idea I just had reading about your ILY dilemma: How about having a discussion about the phrase ILY with him? When is it okay to say it? What does it mean? What's the difference between love and liking a lot?

I said ILY to ex-NG too fast: 2 months into the R and it made me look emotionally dependent. Later, we had discussions about what it means to each of us, when it should come, etc. It was a much better way to get to know where we stand than just saying ILY outright and see what happens.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.