Husband just told me he is moving out.

[ForGump]

For his depression symptoms.....

Sleeping less than 3-4 hours per night
Frequent crying
Says he is numb
Says he sees the world in black and white, not color
Uses words like "hopeless" and "despair" to describe his emotions
Very short tempered with the kids ... Lots of yelling.
Erectile dysfunction.

Pretty serious symptoms. Just that first one by itself -- or the last tone -- can really mess up a person.

My recommendation -- worth the electrons it's written on -- is to encourage him to become healthy. He can't see your marriage for what it's worth while he's in this horrible condition.