If you're interested in flaming me please do so here.
I'm not interested in flaming you at all...
It took a lot of courage to come back here...
It's easy to see that you are hurting, and it's easy to lash out over the internet.
Nameless, faceless people...
Just please remember, that those people are also hurting, and just trying to find a way through their own private hell.
Yet, still find the time to reach out and help another lost soul..
The vets...they have also been through what you are going through. And whilst each story is different, they are all still somewhat the same.
We might not have asked for this, yet we still worked very hard to get here..we just didn't know that is what we are doing...
The vets posting to you, have moved past, and have created a life after their sitch, yet still take the time to come back to, and reach out to those who are hurting.
Most vets are simply trying to repay a program that helped save us from ourselves. DB works if you will let it. Maybe not in the form that we want, yet always, somehow, in the way that we need...
So let me ask you this...
I have read back, and you have talked a lot about the marriage, and your spouse...
What about you ??
Who are you inside ??
Oh, and maybe try to not take everything as an attack, and so personally....
Thick skin and a sense of humor will take you far here...
