What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Surfer]

Altar,

Spot on, I am sure in reality there are very few FF's that have a six pack and an oiled up chest! Similarly, there may be a few strippers that may not have, or had either a life of abuse and/or drug abuse. I don't know anyone that has a stripper as a G/F or wife - but its a very profitable and prolific fantasy.

I think my W has a uniform, out with the girls flirting fantasy. There is the opposite here also, I am sure many a bloke will like the fantasy of sex with a 40 years of mother of a D8 and S6, but when they start living the life, bills, nagging, nothings perfect.....etc That fantasy would fall too.

I think people need to check into reality more. Yes, enjoy your life, but make sure its not a fantasy..

Surfer.