Rose888 -- I definitely remind myself often that, less than 2 months ago, my W was in touch with realtors and even went to look at a house into which she was going to move. That tends to get me back to reality and not so frantic to see "results".

I just need to string a whole mess of great days together and see where I get. If it's as a newly divorced (shudders) dad of two great kids, well, we'll figure that out.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)