One thing I remind myself is that I can't expect the behavior of a few weeks or months to override the effects of decades. This is why the gift of time is such a gift. I just keep doing what I know I need to and don't try to put results on a timetable.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
