Episode 3 - The Divorce Awakens

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You have made a lot of good points cat, I never said I was perfect. I will take them to heart.

Also I apologize for flipping out in this thread - i know people are just trying to help. I guess what got on my nerves - and MrBond I apologize as well - is that people are making these really pat psychological evaluations based on really not knowoing me as a person. For instance

I believe that you probably would not ever hurt her or your kids...until you might...

No. Just no. That's absolutely not me. Also - it is OFFENSIVE to me that men can be persecuted for being violent - *without actually having ever been violent*.

Another thing I see is you saying you have decided not to lie anymore, and then you sign an agreement not to have R talk with your W and you send her a letter (regardless of whose idea it was) and you text, trying to get her to talk about it. How is that not lying? Or at least breaking your word?

It was my DB coach's idea, and I was coerced into that agreement. I do not consider this a lie, what you write is a bit of a stretch.