Originally Posted By: Mombear
Thanks. Yeah, I don't have any illusions about it changing things between us, so I think I'll be able to focus nicely on the children. I'm still just in shock from the suddenness of all of this. I truly believed in soulmates and I never, ever questioned our love for each other. We don't fight, never really have. This is a complete shock. I'm having a hard time finding the ground beneath my feet.


I bet it's a shock! At least I had some forewarning; I can't imagine what you're going through. But, don't beat yourself up over it.

Has your husband seen a doctor to get treatment for his depression?