D now though is very happy with how I'm acting (at least per our conversations). Her biggest complaint about me is the I never help mommy with anything (had this conversation last weekend) and mommy is so busy she desperately needs my help. W does yoga and runs for 3-4 hrs a day and does God knows what else now. I work from 7-6 at least every day and can barely squeeze in any gym time. That rubs me the wrong way and makes me wonder if WW is not feeding things Into to Ds brain.
Of course she's feeding this into D's brain. More controlling behavior, trying to sour your relationship with D. Or, put another way, your improving relationship with D is a threat to her feeling of being in control, which she depends on, so she tries to sabotage.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)