lt0402 - I hate to say it my friend - but she's walking. The plans are made and that train may well have left the station. It looks like she's packed her own bags and is trying to do it on her own. I don't understand "family trust" though so that might be something you'll want to try to protect.

One thing I noticed in your comments about the letter is that never once did you say that she was wrong. Yes, you've become a better man and father since BD 5/31. From what she wrote though BD was actually last Christmas and is looking at you as a case of too little too late and she's not believing it is sustainable.

So you have a couple of choices here.
- Try to fight to force her to stay and block her leaving - probably a bad idea.
- Boot her sorry @ss out the door
- Stand aside and be gracious and make sure that you can continue to improve your R with D9 and work on yourself. She may turn

Tough, tough choices my friend.

Good luck.

P.S. - I chose the last option - no clue whether it was the right one or not.

On BD
H52, W50
T27, M26
S21, D23
BD-9-Mar-16
D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18
I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells