My one true and only fault here is not knowing how to listen and connect.
Originally Posted By: SadDad8
I have been accused of nitpicking and being controlling from day one.
OK. So how can you 180 some of these behaviors?
Originally Posted By: SadDad8
I feel like I have resented her for it the whole time
And how about this? How can you change this about yourself? You are making a choice to be resentful. What other ways could you handle this better in the future?
Originally Posted By: SadDad8
allowed it to irritate me to the point where I am irritated all the time
This doesnt sound like you "got over it", huh? Are there better outlets for these kinds of feelings?
Honestly, theres not much you can do with regards to your W and these things right NOW. However, I would recommend looking at some of these behaviors and seeing if they are how you want to choose to live your life going forward. How can you be a better SadDad?
