Thanks for dropping in my friends and for your good wishes - it's much appreciated! I've enjoyed the first week or so in my new place. Had a little poke around in the garden and been making plans to have it looking really nice. Feels like home anyway. Still some sorting to do, but basically unpacked now - just need to take some stuff to the tip and clear the decks a little.
I've been a little quieter socially, but had a nice couple of outings last weekend - bring and share supper with D group friends and afternoon tea with a couple of girlfriends. I have a friend coming over this evening to see the house - and tomorrow, I get to meet up with a chum from this very forum! Sunday, I'm meeting up with two old friends for the afternoon.
All quiet on the XH front, just need to get the joint account closed down now as his name is off it. Heard from SS this week and hoping to get together with him next week....not seen him for a few months.
NG still seems reticent. We've exchanged a few texts and I keep it light, but he basically backed off since asking me out for a drink and then cancelling. I had a bit of a wobble about that and I worked through it. It's not helpful to think - how come XH found a prospective partner and I can't even go out for a drink with someone!! I wanted to push and prod NG to see why he cancelled and withdrew. Now I just figure he must have something going on and I'll leave him be and keep in occasional friendly contact....pleased that I managed to handle the situation anyway (so far!!)
Well, that's it from me folks & have a great weekend xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
