I know this feeling. The thing for me was yes I felt much closer after S when we were "friends" we were doing heaps together and got along great but I was a "friend" and that's all.
I have no interest in being her friend I want to be her H. So yes it feels like we are getting further away and in reality we are but its to make them miss us the only thing with this is a fear of losing them but when you get comfortable with the fact they are already gone as our W you will start to except it.
My W is like an alien now and yes we could easily be friends, in fact she is trying very hard to put me in he friend zone but I have no interest in that because at best it will last until one of us moves on and then that will be dead anyway.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
