about the letter- my W too said everything is for D. every move, every breath, blah blah. I'm untrustworthy, unreliable, oh man sounds so similar...weird! I like how your W speaks for her. Has D ever mentioned anything to you? Kids to tend to say what you want to hear, or in this case what your W wants to hear (my D is 199% guilty of that stuff) W may be hearing what she wants, and D may be supplying her with it, which is fueling your W. For instance, D will tell my W if I made a simple comment about OM, but will of course fail to tell W that D began spilling the beans and I was merely agreeing or something simple. Why? They feel in the middle and want to be "good" with both parents. The only way to do that (at least in my case) is to tell us what we want to hear.
