Well, a whirlwind of a day to say the least. Checked my credit report and no inquiries on there. W must have been able to get CC in her name only.
It does make me anxious about the finances though. The papers on the counter appear to be printouts of our wills and our family trust. The Verizon card on top of them, which was also conveniently left out yesterday, seems like a passive aggressive way of telling me she's talking to OM regardless of what I do. Also, if she opened a new account in her name at the bank, why would they possibly call me. Her putting my phone num on the account?
All very strange and I'm assuming not coincidental. Needless to say I'm not detached by any means. Is all this drama purposeful?
Came home tonight, ate dinner on couch with D, and exited when Finished to check my credit report. W showered while D and I made 100 paper airplanes and test flew them off the overhang above the family room. Had a blast.
W joined in the fun with some humor and then it was time for bed. D going down now. D has a sleepover here tomorrow but not one Saturday night like W had said. May try to setup a dinner with a friend tomorrow if D is having the sleepover. Saturday evening I have a remote GAL via Skype with 11 friends for our annual fantasy football draft.
D and I have a trip planned next Tuesday to a water park. A fun overnight trip coming back midday Wednesday. Really looking forward to that. No idea what crazy stuff WW will do while we are gone. Im thinking I need to have a conversation with her about no OM around D or in our house. Open to thoughts there. Assuming I'll have to face a convo with her this weekend anyway.
Last L visit tomorrow. Trying not to lose my mind in all this. What I wouldn't give to live by myself out in the middle of the woods of Alaska or somewhere right now. Got to be safer surrounded by grizzly bears and other less ferocious beasts in the wild.
Sorry for the ramblings today all. Helps me settle back in if I can release it out here. Still trying to fully grasp the letter and what response I need to take there.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18