Husband just told me he is moving out.

[Mombear]

He has a family history of depression. But the past year was a really big year for us, so I think it threw him for a spin. We moved into a new house, he got a huge promotion at work, but it is his last promotion. He works for the government, and he has always been very highly motivated and goal oriented, to the point that realizing he has topped out at age 38 is depressing for him.

In any case... He will not try meds and I can not make him. He functions well enough to keep his job and parent, so I can't force the issue. I wish I could, but I cannot.