Taking my first sip of the water

[ATPeace]

Ok so I wanted to keep this thread about me but I have a rather pressing problem question


My W and my 15 year old son have fallen out big time over the state off his bedroom and neither of them will back down least of all my W

She as already stopped him going on a small vacation with a fried and has also imposed that he cannot go out with friends or have friends over

My son is now saying that he will not do his bedroom because mummy did not back down and that he will not back down as he feels she is,now being unreasonable

Now my W very rarely if ever backs,down

She,disowned her. Father he let step mum abuse her turned a blind eye And disowned her mother(she walked out. On her when she. Was 5)

I do not want a huge wedge to be built between the two of them and also what if my w says to me are you not going to back me up ? Making me choose happy son or back up my W with punishments

Any advice

Many thanks

Ghost