Great points, sandi, as always. As a former lurker, then newb, often i feel like posting for just that, to show support that someone is out there on the interwebs sharing your pain. Because it seems a lot of people on here are like me, alone with their thoughts, not getting out as much as we should for a variety of reasons. I hope, in a tiny way, I can make someone feel heard, at least.
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