M: "Bank left a message. Asked if you want to reschedule your meeting with her for tomorrow or Monday. ###-###-####."
W: "Thx. Went in Monday to open CC and personal banker wanted me to meet w/ someone about personal finances. Nothing to do with our current accounts."
W: "Not sure why they called you"
Both Ls I've met have said to not open new accounts/CCs until we get a S agreement in place. I think I need to break my silence with her and mention to her that we not do anything until we have that.
At this point, I think I've sold myself on the fact that the S agreement is coming regardless of what I do. Probably better to take control of the situation than let her drive it. W tends to try to do this type of financial stuff via brute force, which can lead to some less than optimal outcomes.
I think i'll wait until I get home tonight to address it with her.
Not really in the mood to discuss anything over text right now.
Not really in the mood to discuss anything with her period.
Tired, hurt, mad, sad...
Guessing I need to pick myself up, shake myself off, lose the anger from the past weekend, and face the W head on. If that means pushing the S agreement forward, so be it. At least then we can separate finances and remove one level of stress from the playing field.
Am I crazy?
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
