Out of in house S - On My Own (11)

[vise82]

Hey SH_

If she is lying to me how do I know if she really needs me to look after the kids for her because of the reason she gives or is it because she has plans with OM. She has told me she is sick. Doesn't look sick, but that is going to be her no 1 reason for me to cover for her days when needed.

I have been taking to my family now, just my sister and brother. I have also seen my brothers new baby. W had put in the S agreement that I need her permission before kids can visit any of my family. She said its in there or we go to court. So its in there.

So I found out that W was not telling me about the new baby for months. I want my kids to visit the new baby so I have asked her via email for the ok. She is ignoring the requests.

She did not even reply, she sent other emails about other kids sport stuff.

I have asked twice now.

This is a terrible situation to be in. If she does not give me the permission I will have to contact my lawyer.

This is also going to put a strain on everything else. What does she expect me to do, she isolates me in marriage from my family then she expects me to stay isolated from them after she removes herself from my life?

I guess I will just have to ask everyday till she responds.

I have not even told the boys about their new cousin yet.

I thought she would have no issue with it.

What a mess.