My IC is encouraging me to go forward w/ the D, because she thinks it'll be a big wake-up call for my WW. I've not made up my mind on this, and will think on what you said.
FG, I think my IC would tend to agree with yours. My W also has a view of what "our" post M lives look like that seems very unrealistic. IC believes that as we move through this process it may serve as a wake up call to her.
With that said, who knows. Right now it's extremely difficult w/ in-house S. I will say that the more I think about it, maybe it's bad if we stall for the sake of stalling. If nothing is ever changing in the situation, how do we ever make any progress. It's almost like we're waiting for OM to screw things up w/ our WWs which could takes months, if not longer.
By moving things to the next step, at least you're changing the layout of the game. Puts you in a new place to see if it drives any change in your WW. Just rambling at this point.
Hang in there though FG!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
