Just on a side note to all this I used to be very considerate when we ML and I took my time to ensure she was satisfied to the big "O". Now whe tells me that even this was controlling behaviour on my behalf

Just my 2 cent worth

Ghost

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.