From my own experience (while things were good), I remember W saying a few times "I'm not going to this time" and others where she was really excited just to get my rocks off. Yes, it felt good the times I did get her over the moon but it didn't hurt my feelings when she didn't.

That really shouldn't be the biggest part of it. It should be about making each other feel good (I assume it feels good even if you don't finish lol), being close, sharing each other, etc.

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.