AP, I've got that book next on my list to read after the book I'm going through about D and me. Unsure what W is trying to accomplish w/ the clothes etc. She's used intimacy to influence my behavior in the past, but it's been awhile.
JR, yep, I'm hoping my msg to her last night came of as validating and open to talking about it, but still stand off-ish. I'm trying to draw a line b/t the OM situation and this, though am finding it difficult to do.
My biggest issue w/ all this is it pulls my focus away from me when I'm with D. I caught it doing that last Saturday while W was at lake and had a hard time quashing it. I found it doing the same yesterday too. It's not fair to D so I'm trying to be cognizant of when it's occurring so I can push it down until I'm alone. Probably not healthy, but need to make sure I'm 100% there for D while we're together.
But yes, I feel like I'm going to have a few more gray hairs before all is said and done...
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
