liked your post and it brought up a few issues I have; I'm spreading myself thin right now, trying to solve everyone's problems, it's too much.
I'm scared of what it is doing to me; I find I can't remember certain things, like they are blacked-out. Maybe I'm getting Alzheimer's or I'm too stressed!
Quote: H clearly is stating what he wants and doesn't want in a future R with me. Duh.....if this is what I want....a new future with H, I've got to continue to work on ME. I've also got to tell him what I expect in a R with him. We have so much to cover, if this is going to work. This was a hard morning, but it revealed that H does want to have something of high quality with me. This is huge.
Yes, step back, your H is putting up signs, very clearly! You can do this! This is wonderful news! I'm so happy for you!